Posted on September 30, 2017
One essential tip on getting pregnant which you should take into consideration is about the quality of your sexual act or how you can practice quality sex with your spouse. I am going to explain what quality sex is all about. May be you have practice it already, but I would just to remind you about the elements of quality sex related to getting pregnant in particular.
Perfect timing. Having sex is something spontaneous. This means that any time will be okay since the desire may arouse anytime. It is very natural for a couple to get excited when they are together and have sex whatever the situation is. A lot of couples have sex even in a hurry, while they are about to go to the office. This is reality.
Thus you can have it any time you wish. But if it comes to getting pregnant, there is a best time to do it which will provide you the highest possibility to get pregnant. This is the time where you are at the most fertile condition during your period.
It is the time when ovulation occurs, which is the release of a mature egg (ovum) and being captured by the edge of the Fallopian tube where it starts to travel along the tube towards the uterus to meet the champion sperm and gets fertilized.
The highest possibility for the egg to get fertilized is around the estimation date of ovulation. This would be the best time to have sex. The recommended time to have sex to get pregnant is ranging from 3 to 5 days before and after ovulation.
Or in other words, a woman with a normal 28-day cycle, the best tome to have sex starts from the 10th day to the 17th day of the cycle. Some other experts suggest a time range of a week before and after ovulation. During these fertile days, having sex every other day is most appropriate.
Sufficient sperm count. This is one of the essential elements that should be taken into account. Women are often the accused for being infertile and disable to bear a child, while their spouse could be the cause as well. Not only sufficient, but the sperm should be healthy and does not bring any sexual transmitted disease.
Sex frequency. There is no exact formula on how often you should have sex. Having sexual intercourse should be spontaneously and desired by both party. It also depends on the readiness of each party. It is advisable to do sex every other day during your fertile period. A one day break is necessary to provide ample time for your spouse testicles to produce healthy and sufficient amount of sperms.
Physical conditioning. Having sex in a perfect physical condition is one tip to get a quality and satisfying intercourse. It is best to make your self ready to have sex. Take a bath and put a bit body cologne or perfume, so that you are clean and tasty. Washing your self, especially your intimate area before sex is good to keep cleanliness and hygiene and will help you to prevent diseases.
Environmental conditioning. Creating an intimate atmosphere will facilitate an enjoyable sexual intercourse. Soft music, aromatherapy candles, soft lighting are among the kind of things that might elevate your mood to the desired condition to have a satisfying sexual intercourse. Please not that foreplay is also an important act that determines the quality of sex.
Posted on September 23, 2017
Having sex (making love) is one form of communication in the relationship between men and women, especially for those who have married. That’s why sex is important for those who have settled down, for the need of variety of ways to have sex with your partner can take more remarkable (amazing sex habits).
The first thing that might be done is more aggressive behavior. This may be more emphasized on the female side. Various touches ranging from a kiss or a whisper in your partner’s ear can surely arouse your husband. Maybe you can improvise by adding with a mischievous whisper with a naughty smile from your sexy lips. With the more aggressive women, it can make possible your lovemaking ritual will be more attractive because most men prefer their partners to be more aggressive or act in a more mischievous.
Your appearance when having sex relationships can take the impact on the quality of your sexual relationship. The more attractive you are both, the more easily for you both to enjoy your intimate relationships. Attractiveness and sexiness is not necessarily synonymous with lavish appearance. It can be simple enough appearance but look inviting enough from the eyes of your partner. Then your body should be fresh and fragrant well to support your performance in a sexual relationship with your partner. Fresh and fragrance body can be used as a tool to attract your partner to always be excited. In another word, it can be said for being sexy you should keep your body always fresh and fragrant.
Focus, focus, and focus (for being focused). Build your mind to get better focus on your sexual activities, forget your entire mind. Try to relax and give your body a chance to enjoy having sex with your partner.
Communication is your main requirement in a relationship. Thus, try to be able to establish intimate communication with your partner even when you have intercourse with your partner. In your intimate relationships communication is very necessary. The communication between partners could be established by showing the moans as a bookmark if you really enjoy your sexual relationship, or naughty seductive words to make your relationship last. By establishing communication with it, it will impact on your emotional closeness as a couple. The more time you spend time with him, the greater your chance to enjoy the event intercourse with your partner.
Spontaneous action of one partner will further be the enjoyment and also leave a deep impression in your sex experience. In doing this spontaneous attack action you also have to look at the condition or choosing the right time. Although it means you should not hold on the specifics time especially if your partner has memorized your sex act. You must be spontaneous to attack and hit the sensitive spots of your partner first. Your spontaneity in attack will make you relations have higher quality. Yet, you should keep your body to stay in fit condition and ready to fight in all conditions. To keep your body fits you can do a regular exercise as well as supply your body with nutritious and balanced food. Are you curious to try and practice it with your partner?
Posted on September 21, 2017
One of the most difficult challenges, particularly in a same-sex relationship, is establishing boundaries with friends and blending with each others’ friends. Plus, doing this while remaining secure and making each other feel like she is the most important person in the world!
Ordinarily in lesbian relationships, the majority of friends are the same-sex. Friends can be intrusive, meddlesome, opinionated, jealous, rude and inconsiderate; however, they can also be fun, supportive, considerate, helpful, and great sounding boards. There is no doubt, friends will either play havoc on a relationship or be accepting and considerate.
Let’s work from the premise that the relationship is the top priority and friends are not (but still very important). There are several key areas to focus on that can immediately bolster the relationship. These areas need to be mutually established and respected:
Boundaries – Agree on parameters that are manageable. Determine what the negotiable and non-negotiable items are. Examples: Agree to both be home by 8pm, unless otherwise discussed; no answering phones during dinnertime; cell phones are off-limits when you crawl into bed. If you go to happy hour, invite the other to join or at least communicate plans and be home on time. Remember, these boundaries must be agreed upon. If you end up policing and penalizing because of the boundaries, what you have in place is not working. The boundaries are to be and feel respectful of each other, not to hold you hostage.
Communication – Make each other feel special, loved, secure and safe. Talk to each other about everything. Find out about what is important to each other, feelings, favorite things, pet peeves, goals and dreams, fears and phobias, food, children, families, etc. Get to really know each other better than anyone else. Build trust and respect. Make each other feel valued and important.
Common Interests – Explore what you enjoy doing together such as projects, travel, entertaining friends, cooking, golf, fishing, hiking, etc. It is not necessary to do everything together, but it is healthy to do some (enough) things together. It is important to have fun together and feel connected. Orchestrate your relationship so that you are not always running parallel, but have enough intersecting times that keep you in sync with each other.
Host social occasions – One way to blend with each other’s friends is to jointly host social times at your home such as dinners and game nights. Another is to plan outings with joint friends such as happy hours, going to dinner and movies, so forth. The key is to become more comfortable with each other’s friends. Make efforts to blend friends and be more inclusive.
Spontaneity – Surprise each other in ways that you know are appreciated and liked. Break the routine and break away from all others and do for each other. Make each other feel exceptional.
Happy, long-term relationships are to be nurtured treated as top priority. Focus on enjoying your time together. Include friends when it’s appropriate and mutually agreed upon. There should be no feeling of competing for time, attention and love! Friends are to be fun additions.